Intercultural Friendships
Because of these cultural differences, Dutch students might think of international students as passive, easily offended students who only memorize and reproduce study material while not saying what they really think. International students might see the Dutch students as noisy in class, disrespectful to teachers and classmates, showing off, lazy and negative. It is a challenge for everyone in international classrooms to overcome these prejudices and become friends. |
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Brutal Honesty
Honesty is highly valued in the Dutch communication style: avoiding loosing face plays a less important role. As Dutch society is quite individualistic, Dutch students prefer to show the class how critical they are, rather than strive to being loyal classmates.
The Dutch eagerness for group discussions and strong opinions might make your first presentation a difficult experience. Keep in mind that if a professor or fellow student 'burns' your ideas in public, it's nothing personal. Likewise, you are expected to have a critical mindset, so questioning your fellow students, professors and people in senior positions on study-related issues is encouraged. |